Most people think creating a better life means trying harder, thinking more, or pushing through fear.

This book points to something quieter — and far more practical:

You don’t need to escape reality.
You need to stop fighting it.

This article explains the core methods of The Forgotten Side of This Reality in simple terms, without fantasy, hype, or spiritual bypassing.

No superpowers.
No denial of money.
No pretending problems don’t exist.

Just how reality actually responds to you — and how to work with it instead of against it.

1. What This Book Is Really About (In Plain English)

At its heart, the book says this:

Reality responds more to your state of being than your effort.

That doesn’t mean effort is useless.
It means effort without alignment creates friction.

Most people:

  • Try to fix life from panic

  • Make decisions from fear

  • Force outcomes they don’t trust will happen

The result?

  • Burnout

  • Anxiety

  • Constant “almost there” energy

This book is not about leaving the world.
It’s about operating inside it more cleanly.

2. The “Hologram” Explained Without Sci-Fi

When the book uses words like hologram or simulation, it does not mean:

  • The world isn’t real

  • Your body doesn’t matter

  • Death, illness, money, or time don’t exist

What it does mean is this:

Your experience of reality is filtered through your nervous system, beliefs, expectations, and emotional state.

Two people can live in the same city:

  • One feels trapped

  • One feels supported

Same reality.
Different internal signal.

The “hologram” is simply:

  • The feedback loop between your inner world and outer results

3. The First Method: Stop Reacting Automatically

This is the most important practice in the book.

You don’t clear fear by fighting it.
You clear it by not obeying it.

Example:

A bill arrives.
Fear says:

“This is bad. I’m falling behind.”

Old response:

  • Panic

  • Complaining

  • Self-attack

  • Rushing decisions

New response:

  • Pause

  • Breathe

  • Say: “I don’t need to decide anything from fear.”

Nothing magical happens instantly.

But something crucial does happen:
You stop feeding the loop that keeps recreating the same stress.

This is what the book means by “clearing code”.

4. Why You’re Not Being Asked to Ignore Money

Let’s be very clear.

The book is not saying:

  • Don’t care about money

  • Quit your job

  • Pretend bills don’t exist

It is saying:

Money reacts badly to desperation.

When you relate to money as:

  • Proof of worth

  • Safety itself

  • A threat if missing

You tense your nervous system — and that tension shapes your decisions.

The book protects you from:

  • Making financial choices from panic

  • Chasing money instead of building value

  • Burning energy trying to “force abundance”

You still earn.
You still plan.
You just stop worshipping fear while doing it.

5. The Real Danger This Work Protects You From

This is important.

The book is quietly protecting readers from:

1. Spiritual bypassing

Pretending everything is fine when it isn’t.

2. Hustle-based burnout

Trying to outwork insecurity.

3. Identity collapse

Thinking you are broken if things aren’t flowing.

4. Magical thinking

Believing thoughts alone replace action.

Instead, it teaches calm authorship.

6. Calm Authorship Explained

Calm authorship means:

  • You still act

  • You still plan

  • You still move forward

But you do it from:

  • Clarity

  • Neutrality

  • Self-trust

Not from:

  • Proving

  • Escaping

  • Desperation

Example:

Old way:

“I must make this work or I’m screwed.”

New way:

“I’ll take the next sensible step without panic.”

Same action.
Different signal.

Reality responds differently.

7. Why “Chilling Out” Actually Works (Neurology, Not Magic)

When the book says “chill out”, it’s not being casual.

When you calm your nervous system:

  • Your brain accesses better options

  • Your perception widens

  • You notice opportunities you were blind to

Stress narrows focus.
Calm expands it.

This is why relaxed people often:

  • Get better ideas

  • Meet the right people

  • Move at the right time

Not because they’re lucky — but because they’re not blocked.

8. The Baby Awareness Exercise (Why It Works)

The book suggests perceiving life like a baby.

Not helpless.
Present.

A baby:

  • Isn’t planning five steps ahead

  • Isn’t rehearsing failure

  • Isn’t proving worth

This returns you to now-based awareness, which:

  • Stops mental spirals

  • Interrupts fear loops

  • Restores natural intelligence

You don’t become childish.
You become clear.

9. Desire Without Attachment

One of the book’s most important ideas:

Wanting something is fine.
Needing it to feel safe is what breaks flow.

Healthy desire:

  • Curious

  • Open

  • Flexible

Unhealthy desire:

  • Desperate

  • Tight

  • Fear-driven

The book teaches you to say:

“I want this — and I’m okay while it unfolds.”

That single shift changes everything.

10. Why Forcing Outcomes Backfires

Forcing usually means:

  • Acting too early

  • Over-talking

  • Over-spending

  • Over-committing

When you force, you’re acting from:

“I don’t trust life to support me.”

The book helps you build trust through evidence, not belief.

You act.
You observe.
You adjust calmly.

That’s real power.

11. This Is Not Passive Living

Let’s kill this myth.

This work does not mean:

  • Waiting around

  • Doing nothing

  • Hoping life fixes itself

It means:

  • Acting without panic

  • Choosing from clarity

  • Letting results inform your next move

You become responsive, not reactive.

12. How This Fits the Identity Awakening System

Your Identity Awakening System works because:

  • Identity determines perception

  • Perception determines decisions

  • Decisions determine outcomes

This book strengthens:

  • Inner safety

  • Self-trust

  • Signal clarity

Which makes every external system work better.

13. The Quiet Truth

You don’t need to escape the world.

You need to stop:

  • Fighting it

  • Proving yourself to it

  • Bracing against it

The forgotten side of reality isn’t mystical.

It’s this:

Life responds best when you stop shouting at it.

Final Thought

This work doesn’t promise miracles.

It promises something better:

Stability, clarity, and clean movement forward.

That’s how better realities are built.