Not only does she face being looked down upon by friends and family, but shes also carrying the weight of breaking up her marriage in a pretty brutal, hurtful way. Your email address will not be published. If she doesn't even care about her boyfriend, that means it's an empty relationship. Below, experts explain 20 things you shouldn't put up with in your partnership. She Is Truly Afraid Of Women Losing You. In your head, you might think that she likes you and is merely playing hard to get to get your attention. If she is talking to other men, never initiates any conversations with you, avoids spending time with you alone, or is always making excuses when you ask to meet her, it is time to stop running after her. She may also start paying more attention to her appearance and flirting with other guys more than usual. You might be thinking how does she remember that? well its simply because she cares! They might not be looking for something too serious or long-term. But youll never know until she actually does it. In case you havent been getting any such signals from the girl youre interested in, the writing is on the wall: its time to stop engaging with her. She is using you as her crutch to get over her bad phases. Another guy wrote to us, saying, I stopped chasing her but now she wants me. It means that she is fairly serious about you. She becomes needy and clingy when her life is a mess and, of course, since you are so smitten by her, you give her the attention and pampering she needs at that point to feel good about herself. Her phone is more important to her than you are, 6. First, pay attention to how she talks about her current relationship. If she really wants to be with you she will try to get to know and approach your family to impress you. She is too chicken to say no to you upfront and guises her lack of interest in you under commitment-phobia. Aggressive manipulation tends to involve more obvious attempts to control your behavior, including: shaming or mocking you. The way to do that is to do nothing to purposely harm her. Many people caught up in extra-marital affairs claim theyll leave their husband/wife and never do. Complaining About Boyfriend To You A Lot, 7. If she frequently mentions other guys or talks about her single friends being happy, it may be a sign that shes not satisfied with her current relationship. You will be able to sense that she is distant even if her words say otherwise. The signs that she wants you to leave her alone can be seen both in person and online. But if shes not bothered anymore, then she doesnt care about what her husband feels since shes planning to leave him anyway. //